{"id":1730,"date":"2018-11-12T08:42:52","date_gmt":"2018-11-12T07:42:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/?p=1730"},"modified":"2018-11-12T08:42:52","modified_gmt":"2018-11-12T07:42:52","slug":"cesta-trvale-promeny","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/index.php\/2018\/11\/12\/cesta-trvale-promeny\/","title":{"rendered":"Cesta trval\u00e9 prom\u011bny"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>V\u00fdvoj \u010dlov\u011bka nestoj\u00ed na m\u00edst\u011b ani uvnit\u0159 ani vn\u011b. Zm\u011bny se d\u011bj\u00ed a je snaz\u0161\u00ed b\u00fdt p\u0159ipraven se zm\u011bnit, ne\u017e b\u00fdt zm\u011bnou str\u017een. C\u00edlem osobn\u00edho v\u00fdvoje je stabiln\u00ed st\u0159ed sebe sama. Kon\u010d\u00ed jedna \u017eivotn\u00ed etapa a za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 nov\u00e1.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Uv\u011bdomil jsem si, \u017ee c\u00edlem m\u00fdch cest je zm\u011bna. Zm\u011bna sebe sama, m\u00e9ho vnit\u0159n\u00edho prost\u0159ed\u00ed v\u010detn\u011b my\u0161len\u00ed a pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed. \u00a0Nov\u00e9 prost\u0159ed\u00ed toti\u017e v\u017edy znamen\u00e1 nov\u00e9 v\u00fdzvy i ur\u010dit\u00fd st\u0159et se sv\u00fdm zastaral\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem my\u0161len\u00ed \u010di postoji.<\/p>\n<p>Mo\u017enost dost\u00e1vat se do nov\u00fdch situac\u00ed je pr\u00e1v\u011b t\u00edm prvkem, kter\u00fd jedince posouv\u00e1 d\u00e1l. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 situace, \u010dlov\u011bk, n\u00e1pad \u010di my\u0161lenka m\u011b tak stav\u00ed do situace, ve kter\u00e9 se mus\u00edm n\u011bco nau\u010dit. Tyto situace vy\u017eaduj\u00ed zejm\u00e9na pochopen\u00ed, p\u0159ehodnocen\u00ed a nakonec vnit\u0159n\u00ed vyrovn\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Nut\u00ed tak \u010dlov\u011bka si uv\u011bdomovat sv\u00e9 slabiny i p\u0159ednosti a rozv\u00edjet oboje v\u00a0z\u00e1jmu nalezen\u00ed jak\u00e9hosi st\u0159edu \u2013 zenu \u2013 neboli m\u00edsta, ve kter\u00e9m \u010dlov\u011bk pouze je a nic ho nem\u016f\u017ee vyv\u00e9st z rovnov\u00e1hy.<br \/>\n<script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<!-- Automatick\u00e1 velikost reklamy --><br \/>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display: block;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9221645303649413\" data-ad-slot=\"8661693083\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins><br \/>\n<script>\n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ani okoln\u00ed prost\u0159ed\u00ed nestoj\u00ed na m\u00edst\u011b<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Pokud \u010dlov\u011bk aktivn\u011b nehled\u00e1 zm\u011bnu s\u00e1m, tak si zm\u011bna najde jeho. V\u00fdvoj okoln\u00edho prost\u0159ed\u00ed toti\u017e tak\u00e9 nestoj\u00ed na m\u00edst\u011b. Je sice mo\u017en\u00e9 sna\u017eit se zuby nehty dr\u017eet zab\u011bhl\u00e9ho a zn\u00e1m\u00e9ho prost\u0159ed\u00ed, kter\u00e9 mnohdy vylu\u010duje nov\u00e9 impulzy, ale p\u0159ijde mi, \u017ee \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l to tak jde, t\u00edm v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed jsou emo\u010dn\u00ed \u010di jin\u00e9 energetick\u00e9 n\u00e1roky na udr\u017een\u00ed takov\u00e9ho stavu.<\/p>\n<p>N\u011bkter\u00e9 situace \u010di zp\u016fsoby my\u0161len\u00ed jsou ji\u017e nejen zastaral\u00e9 ale tak\u00e9 ne\u00fanosn\u00e9. Rad\u011bji proto podstupuji vlastn\u00ed zm\u011bnu dobrovoln\u011b, z\u00a0vlastn\u00edch impulz\u016f a co nejd\u0159\u00edv, ne\u017e se k\u00a0nim pak nechat dohnat od m\u011bn\u00edc\u00edho se okoln\u00edho prost\u0159ed\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Je nakonec celkem p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 nechat se un\u00e1\u0161et proudem zm\u011bn a n\u00e1hod. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 zm\u011bna je toti\u017e p\u0159irozenou p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed i v\u00fdzvou a nikdy nen\u00ed tak velk\u00e1, aby j\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk nemohl zvl\u00e1dnout. A Kdy\u017e je pak n\u00e1hodou se silami v\u00a0konc\u00edch, v\u017edy se objev\u00ed z\u00e1chrann\u00e9 lano. To je ji\u017e vyzkou\u0161en\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/2018\/05\/28\/jak-se-zbavit-strachu-a-zacit-cestovat\/\">Tip: Jak se zbavit strachu a za\u010d\u00edt cestovat (\u010dt\u011bte v\u00edce zde).<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Syst\u00e9m trval\u00e9 prom\u011bny<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Zm\u011bny se d\u011bj\u00ed a budou d\u00edt. A jedinou smysluplnou reakc\u00ed je nau\u010dit se jim co nejrychleji p\u0159izp\u016fsobit. Je to jak\u00fdsi princip trval\u00e9 prom\u011bny, kter\u00e1 se odehr\u00e1v\u00e1 neust\u00e1le.<\/p>\n<p>Velkou v\u00fdhodou tohoto principu je, \u017ee jakmile si \u010dlov\u011bk p\u0159ipust\u00ed, \u017ee k\u00a0n\u011b\u010demu takov\u00e9mu doch\u00e1z\u00ed, i kdy\u017e to t\u0159eba je\u0161t\u011b nen\u00ed vid\u011bt, tak je na nejlep\u0161\u00ed cest\u011b se zastavit a zamyslet. Pt\u00e1t se p\u0159itom s\u00e1m sebe co d\u011bl\u00e1m \u0161patn\u011b nebo jinak, ne\u017e bych cht\u011bl a obvykle potom celkem rychle naj\u00edt p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu a napravit sv\u00e9 my\u0161len\u00ed a chov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00a0t\u00edmto p\u0159\u00edstupem je pak mo\u017en\u00e9 se nejen rychle rozhodnout a adaptovat, ale tak\u00e9 zm\u011bny otev\u0159en\u011b o\u010dek\u00e1vat, nenechat se jimi zasko\u010dit a t\u011b\u0161it se, co nov\u00e9ho p\u0159inesou.<br \/>\n<script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<!-- Automatick\u00e1 velikost reklamy --><br \/>\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display: block;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-9221645303649413\" data-ad-slot=\"8661693083\" data-ad-format=\"auto\" data-full-width-responsive=\"true\"><\/ins><br \/>\n<script>\n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\n<\/script><\/p>\n<p><strong>P\u0159\u00edstup ke zm\u011bn\u00e1m je na n\u00e1s<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nakonec je v\u0161ak v\u017edy jen na ka\u017ed\u00e9m z n\u00e1s, jak se v\u016f\u010di\u00a0nov\u00e9 situaci zachov\u00e1me. Zda to bude nep\u0159\u00edtel, kter\u00fd n\u00e1s chce p\u0159ipravit o p\u016fvodn\u00ed stav, kter\u00fd ji\u017e ani nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt p\u0159i stejn\u00fdch my\u0161lenk\u00e1ch a rutin\u00e1ch udr\u017eiteln\u00fd, nebo se prost\u011b rozhodneme d\u011blat v\u011bci jinak, l\u00e9pe a radostn\u011bji. Inu je lep\u0161\u00ed se zm\u011bnit, ne\u017e b\u00fdt zm\u011bn\u011bn.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Konec \u017eivotn\u00ed etapy<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nyn\u00ed mi kon\u010d\u00ed jedna \u017eivotn\u00ed etapa. V\u00edm ji\u017e n\u011bjakou chv\u00edli, \u017ee kon\u010d\u00ed a p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed velk\u00e1 zm\u011bna. Proto se p\u0159ipravuji na tu novou.<\/p>\n<p>Dostal jsem p\u0159itom \u0161anci vyrazit do <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/2018\/09\/24\/vizum-v-pase-a-letenky-do-chile\/\">Chile (v\u00edce jsem psal zde)<\/a>, abych se mohl mnoho nov\u00e9ho nau\u010dit. Proto minimalizuji brzdy ve form\u011b nepot\u0159ebn\u00fdch v\u011bc\u00ed <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/2018\/07\/09\/minimalismus-veci-aneb-mene-je-vice\/\">(v\u00edce jsem psal zde)<\/a> a t\u011b\u0161\u00edm se na to nov\u00e9, co m\u011b \u010dek\u00e1. T\u011b\u017eko \u0159\u00edct, co budoucnost p\u0159inese, ale v\u00edm jist\u011b, \u017ee bude st\u00e1t za to.<\/p>\n<p>Mohlo by V\u00e1s zaj\u00edmat:<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/2018\/04\/10\/v-zajeti-casu\/\">O vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed \u010dasu rozd\u00edln\u00fdmi zp\u016fsoby jsem psal v \u010dl\u00e1nku V zajet\u00ed \u010dasu (zde)<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/2018\/05\/14\/jak-na-dlouhodobe-cestovani-s-minimem-penez\/\">Jak cestovat dlouhodob\u011b a s minimem n\u00e1klady? (v\u00edce zde)<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>V\u00fdvoj \u010dlov\u011bka nestoj\u00ed na m\u00edst\u011b ani uvnit\u0159 ani vn\u011b. Zm\u011bny se d\u011bj\u00ed a je snaz\u0161\u00ed b\u00fdt p\u0159ipraven se zm\u011bnit, ne\u017e b\u00fdt zm\u011bnou str\u017een. C\u00edlem osobn\u00edho v\u00fdvoje je stabiln\u00ed st\u0159ed sebe sama. Kon\u010d\u00ed jedna \u017eivotn\u00ed etapa a za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 nov\u00e1.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1739,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[56],"tags":[645,478,646,647,648,649,650,289,651],"class_list":["post-1730","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-myslenky","tag-adaptace","tag-mysleni","tag-myslenky","tag-prehodnoceni","tag-promena","tag-situace","tag-vyzva","tag-zmena","tag-zmeny"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Zen-obrazek-mensi-5-scaled.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1730","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1730"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1730\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1739"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1730"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1730"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jindrichsmitka.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1730"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}